How to become a good listener

Quiet your agenda

This is the some of the important things to consider if you want to become a good listener. This means while you can't control someone else's listening habits, you can control your own and that involve quitting down your mind. Turn off those agendas and really try to listen to what someone is trying to say. If someone finish the conversation and learn nothing surprising that means they weren't listening.

Ask more questions
 
One of the most easier and simplest way to be a good listener is to ask more questions than you give answers . When you ask a question you create a safe space for other people to give you unvarnished truth. Listening with real intent means one is going to be open to being strong and comfortable with what in the conversation.

Pay attention to your talk or listen ratio

If you a note taker during meetings or conversations try keep track of how to you listen and talk Whenever  a person talks for more than a sentence or two and put a check mark on his/her name that includes you.

Repeat back to what you heard

A number of problems interfere with people's ability to understand accurately what another person is trying to communicate. Evolve the ideas closely together to get a specific meaning 

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